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The Big Seminar Recap
By Jason Ferruggia
Unlike my last trip to Boston
a few years earlier, this one would prove to be easy and painless. As I
approached the exit I called CJ Murphy on his cell phone for directions. He
mentioned three rotarys. I’m from Jersey so I
wondered, “what the f*ck is a rotary?” I finally figured it out and arrived at
the new home of Total Performance Sports a few minutes later. I walked in to
hear the sounds of weights clanging, men 100 pounds bigger than me yelling and
screaming, and heavy metal blasting. I felt right at home.
After saying my hellos I went to grab some food with my good
buddies, Jim “Smitty” Smith from the Diesel Crew and Alwyn Cosgrove. At dinner
I told Smitty that I had hit 765 on the Power Squat on Wednesday and was pretty
happy with that since my leg training had been very haphazard over the last few
months and I felt like my strength was starting to come back.
“That’s pretty good,” he said.
“Is it?” I asked, in hope of getting his approval of my
lower body strength.
“Not really. I’m just trying to make you feel better.”
“Right. That’s what I figured. Thanks, buddy.”
When we returned, Matt Rhodes was squatting somewhere in the
neighborhood of a million pounds, under the watchful eye of Jim Wendler and
Dave Tate. Suddenly my Power Squat seemed even more pathetic.
Across the room, Vincent Dizenzo was benching somewhere
around the same weight. It was all very impressive and motivating, to say the
least. Even though I had only slept a combined total of seven hours in the
previous two nights and had barely eaten all day on the ride up, I was
extremely motivated by my surroundings and had to move some weight.
Smitty and I trained together and worked up to 130’s on
dumbbell floor presses and one arm rows. I beat him on the floor presses and he
did 21 reps to my 20 on the rows. Under most circumstances I would think that I
did pretty well in the gym that day and would have been happy with myself. I
can routinely walk into most public gyms and outlift just about everyone,
including guys who outweigh me by fifty pounds, but that’s not really the least
bit of an impressive feat. It’s not until you see and surround yourself with
guys that are truly strong that you will ever get truly strong. Even if you can
only do it on occasion, you need to get out of your comfort zone and train with
guys who are far stronger than you. In fact, whenever I spend time with Dave or
Jim I always come home and make better strength gains in the next month than I
had in the previous three because my whole idea of what is strong has be
renewed and I realize just how far I have to go.
After training on Friday night we all went to dinner where
among other things, I learned that there are internet forums filled with guys
who hate me and Alwyn and anyone else who is successful in this business.
Although it’s sad to think about people having such a lack of fulfillment and
success in their own lives it did give me great pleasure and cause Alwyn much
frustration to learn that I receive more attention than he does on some of
these boards.
“How the f*ck are you getting more hatred than me? I’m
pissed!”
Apparently these incredibly successful, super strong, jacked
up forum posters also have problems with Jim Wendler and James Smith as well,
but according to at least one source, they like to discuss their disdain for me
the most. For that I must thank them and say that I truly appreciate how much
attention they pay to what I say. It means
a lot to me.
After a great night of story telling and drinking beer we
headed back to the hotel to get ready for The Big Seminar the next morning. But
first we made a pit stop at the bar for a few more beers and stories. It was
here that I had the pleasure of talking to Rhodes
and Vinny for the first time that night. I also learned that apparently they
don’t serve more than one beer per person in Boston…or something like that. That’s wicked
retahded.
After about an hour so of hilarious stories provided by
Dave, Rhodes and Vinny, I decided that it was time to head up to my
room and get ready for the morning.
The Seminar
Since I participated in the seminar I will not be giving a
fully detailed review. I will say that Cosgrove, Wendler and Murph are three of
the first guys in this entire industry that I go to for training and business
advice and I think they proved exactly why. Whenever I hear any of these three
speak I always learn something and this weekend proved to be no different.
There was a great group of attendees and it was a pleasure
to meet each and every one of them. Hopefully they all got everything out of
the seminar that they were hoping for. Personally, I think watching any of
those three guys speak or coach is worth the price of admission alone.
Especially when Jim gets fired up and starts yelling and cursing; there’s not
much better than that.
Jim is fond of saying that you will never learn a ton at a
seminar; that all the real knowledge comes from training and experience. I
agree 100% but I also know that just being around certain individuals,
especially those who are stronger and more experienced and/or more successful
than you can teach you quite a bit and really improve your training or your
business.
This weekend was the first time that I had the pleasure of
meeting Vincent Dizenzo (who is an 800 pound bench presser and absolutely
enormous, by the way) and I must say that not only is he an incredibly nice,
smart and funny individual but he taught me a lot, whether he knows it or not.
Just being with people like that rubs off on you and motivates you to be better
at what you do, whether it be your hobby or your job or whatever. I had several
conversations with Vinny over the weekend and while I was usually laughing my
ass off at one of his stories I was also incredibly impressed with him and that
only served to motivate me.
A lot of times people stereotype powerlifters to never
listen to anything that anyone weaker and smaller than them has to say about
anything. However, Vinny told Alwyn and I that he learned a lot from listening
to us speak about business and later told Alwyn how much he respects all the
hard work Alwyn has put into his business and all the training knowledge he has
acquired over the years. That meant a lot to Alwyn and I and shows what kind of
person Vinny is.
We all can, and should, learn from each other. It’s how you
get better at everything you do. And we should all be constantly striving to
get better in every aspect of our life. If you are not progressing, you are
regressing; there can be no standing still.
One of the attendees summed it up perfectly at the end of
the day Saturday. As an outsider to the whole thing and having met all those
guys for the first time this weekend he explained how he thought it was
incredibly cool to see a bunch of guys who are so different and have many
different areas of expertise yet are so similar. He said she learned something
different from each speaker yet also saw the underlying similarities amongst
all of us. People always want to look
for the differences between training programs and coaches and what successful
people do when in reality they should look for the similarities.
Jim explained this during his presentation and I believe he
really hit the nail on the head. Don’t look at what the top lifters in the
world do differently because there are, in fact, numerous differences. But
instead, look at what they all have in common. This applies to every aspect of
your life that you are trying to improve.
Hopefully everyone in attendance learned something from each
of the speakers and realized that while their approaches to training or
business may differ slightly, it’s really what they do the same and the common
characteristics that they share that really matters in the end.
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Thanks again to all the attendees and to CJ Murphy for being
such a great host.
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